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  1. Book Review: Real Marriage: The Truth About Sex, Friendship, and Life Together

    January 3, 2012 by admin

    In Real Marriage: The Truth About Sex, Friendship, and Life Together, Pastor Mark and Grace Driscoll seek to present a real and honest book about marriage.  In typical Driscoll fashion, this is a book that does not shy away from the difficult topics with regard to marriage and sexuality.  Real Marriage has clearly been influenced by Driscoll’s popular sermons on the topic and includes a depth of resources from the almost 50 books and many articles that he and Grace have read in preparation for this book.  This makes Real Marriage a good book for additional resources on the topic from both Christian and secular sources.

    The underlying theme of the first segment of the Driscolls’ book is the importance of friendship in marriage.  If a couple is going to last in marriage, they must be friends who are seeking to love each other and serve each other through the biblical description of marriage in Ephesians 5Open Link in New Window.  With chapters specifically to men and specifically to women from Ephesians 5Open Link in New Window, the book wrestles with what it means to be a godly spouse in a practical manner.

    The second segment of Real Marriage seeks to deal with the topic of sex.  This is the section that will cause many readers to struggle with the Driscolls’ views.  This segment contains a detailed exegesis of Song of Solomon from his Pleasant Princess series.  It also contains answers to many controversial questions about sex and sexuality, a chapter on sexual abuse, and a chapter on pornography.  Though I do not agree with everything the Driscolls say in this section, I think their approach is helpful.  All questions regarding sex and sexuality are addressed through the following three questions:

    • Is it lawful?
    • Is it helpful?
    • Is it enslaving?

     

    I think that these are helpful questions that form a good framework for addressing questions that are not specifically addressed in scripture.

    In the final section, the Driscolls challenge couples to have a strategic plan for their life and marriage.  This is done by encouraging communication, setting priorities, and seeking to live a balanced life.  This section contains many helpful questions and suggestions to put these principles into practice in your own life and marriage.

    Real Marriage is an in-your-face look at marriage and relationships that challenges couples to have a biblically thriving marriage.  It has the typical shock and awe effect that many of Driscoll’s books are known for, but it is also very helpful and practical.  It is a challenge that seeks to be grounded in the Word and to encourage couples to make their last day of marriage better than their first.


  2. Does Your Life Tell the World that God Is Great?

    December 16, 2011 by admin

    Today, the news reported the death of world renown atheist, Christopher Hitchens, from a long battle with cancer.  Hitchens is known in religious circles for his role as a leader in the New Atheism movement and as author of God Is Not Great.  In the world of atheists, I think that Hitchens was my favorite.  He had a British whit about him that made him a likeable person even though I disagree with what he stood for. I had the opportunity to hear Hitchens debate at Samford University a few years ago.  Though I believe Hitchens was wrong in his views, I have hoped that God would use his battle with cancer to open his eyes to the transformational power of the gospel.

    As a finite human being, I do not presume to know where Hitchens stood before God in the end, but I have been reflecting on what it would be like to stand before a God, who you claimed was not great, in all the greatness of His glory.  As I ponder the picture of standing before God, I have been reflecting on how many times we as Christians live like God is not great.  We have reduced God to a deity that is not great by making our relationship with God a mere addition to our busy lives.   This idea was most clearly stated by Brenan Manning:

    “The single greatest cause of Atheism in the world today is Christians who acknowledge Jesus with their lips and walk out the door and deny Him with their lifestyles.  This is what an unbelieving world simply finds unbelievable.”

    The question that each of us must ask: Are we living lives that tell the world that our God is great? 

    May our actions be empowered by the Holy Spirit so that we reflect Christ and the transformational power of His gospel.   We serve a great God who is worthy of all of our lives and all of our worship.  Do those around you believe that you serve a God who is great?  There will come a day when every person will stand before this great God.  What will He say to you?


  3. Book Review: Torn: Trusting God When Life Leaves You in Pieces by Jud Wilhite

    August 16, 2011 by admin

    In Torn: Trusting God When Life Leaves You in Pieces, Jud Wilhite presents an encouraging and biblical call to trust God in the midst of suffering and difficulty.  This is clearly a book that was written by a pastor, who has suffered himself and alongside people in his congregation.  Therefore, this is a book that is not divorced from the reality and pain of suffering.  Jud faces real questions and seeks to answer them clearly with biblical truth.

    This is a very encouraging book because it is framed through the lenses of others who have suffered.  Each chapter contains several personal narratives from friends of Judd and people throughout history who have learned to suffer well.

    Torn is a call to reframe your expectations about God.  Judd sees God as a God who is good and sovereign, who works out things for His ultimate glory.  God is not a genie God who guards us from any pain but is an incarnational God who is with us in the midst of our pain.  Practically, this means that suffering should drive us deeper into to the “who” of God rather than causing us to constantly ask “why.”

    Torn contains practical and biblical advice for dealing with depression, learning to suffer in the context of community, and fighting for joy in the midst of suffering.  Judd presents a great book that is biblically grounded and easy to read.  I would highly recommend this book to people who find themselves Torn or seek to walk with those who are broken.


  4. Book Review: Churched: One Kid’s Journey Toward God Despite a Holy Mess by Matthew Paul Turner

    July 15, 2011 by admin

    In Churched: One Kid’s Journey Toward God Despite a Holy Mess, Matthew Paul Turner presents a tragic memoir of what happens when churches fail to practice the gospel.  The book is the story of his childhood in church, which he described as fundamentalist.

    In these fundamentalist churches, every thing took a fundamental place except for the gospel.   There was a deep desire to see people converted to faith in Christ, but these conversions were brought on by fear instead of love.  In one story, Turner recounts the time a Sunday school teacher burned a Barbie doll in front of the class in order to represent the horrors of hell for those who fail to become Christians.  This is a very problematic approach to evangelism, which may get children to pray a prayer but will also scar them for life.

    The memoir presents many similar stories from Turner’s time in church.  He recounts the stories in a very humorous manner, but the disturbing nature of the stories remains.  The book ends with a story of Turner’s hesitation to meet with a pastor for coffee as an adult due to his childhood experiences in church.

    Churched is a challenging reminder for churches and pastors to keep the main thing – the gospel – as the focus of ministry.  Christians must be aware that it is God who sets the priorities in the church and that His goals and gospel should remain central.


  5. Book Review: Billy Graham in Quotes

    June 14, 2011 by admin

    When it comes to influential Christians, Billy Graham tops the list.  Graham’s seventy year ministry has impacted millions and has served as a clear example of  gospel-driven ministry.  Even as Graham ages, his heart for the lost and passion for ministry still stand strong.  In his humble introduction to Billy Graham in Quotes, Graham remarks:

    “My hope is that those who do not know Him (Jesus) as their personal Savior will be moved by the message found in these pages and be drawn by the Holy Spirit to the foot of the cross, where forgiveness is found and salvation through grace is granted.”

    From Franklin Graham’s forward and Billy Graham’s introduction, it is clear that their goal in this book is to encourage people through thoughts from Billy Graham’s life and ministry.  However, they are also very clear that the only true source of truth is the Word of God and that all of the thoughts in this book are intended to drive readers back into the Word.  This idea is highlighted by the fact that  each topic that Graham’s quotes are categorized begins with a Biblical passage relating to the topic to be addressed.   The scriptural and biblical approach to this volume makes it an excellent resource.

    When it comes to influential voices who shaped modern evangelicalism, Billy Graham stands as a great man of God seeking to humbly declare the truth of God.  This book is a great resource for preachers and ministers who are looking for quotes and inspiring statements of truth from the man that was known for so long and by so many people as America’s pastor.


  6. Book Review: The Liturgical Year: The Spiraling Adventure of the Spiritual Life

    May 9, 2011 by admin

     

    In The Liturgical Year: The Spiraling Adventure of the Spiritual Life, Joan Chittister makes the church calendar and the importance of liturgy come alive.  This is the seventh book in Thomas Nelson’s Ancient Practices Series, which focuses on different spiritual disciplines.  This series is strongly influenced by primary voices in the Emergent Church Movement such as Phyllis Tickle and Brian McLaren.  In my opinion, the return to spiritual disciplines of the monastics and the early church is a helpful part of the Emergent Movement.

    As a Southern Baptist, the church calendar and liturgy were two areas which were very unfamiliar to me.  Chittister has a very strong Catholic influence.  This came through in some aspects of the book.  The focus on church festivals centered around Mary were concerning to me personally.  However, I was very encouraged with how Chittister approached the role of the saints as serving as examples of how to live the Christian life.  Chittister’s descriptions of the different elements of the church calendar were short yet helpful to the reader.

    Why would someone, who is not a theologian, want to read a book on liturgy?  This is the unspoken question in the minds of readers throughout the book.  Chittister does an excellent job of addressing this issue.  She clearly connects the role of the church calendar and liturgy to phases in a Christian’s growth in their personal walk with Christ.  This made me want to more intentionally incorporate the church calendar and liturgy in my own personal devotional life.

    I would recommend this book for thoughtful reading.  The theological persuasion of the author clearly influences the book.  Like with any other book, readers should be careful to read with biblical discernment in order to filter truth from error.  After reading this book, I think that it would be helpful for more non-liturgical Christians to adopt the rhythm of life that is experienced through the church calendar and liturgy.


  7. Book Review: SoulPrint: Discovering Your Divine Destiny

    May 2, 2011 by admin

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    Our world is in an identity crisis.  We are constantly looking to celebrities, children, relationships, looks, and many other things to base our identity on.  In SoulPrint: Discovering Your Divine Destiny, Mark Batterson effectively presents the biblical antidote to this identity crisis.  As believers, our true identities are grounded in our relationship with Jesus Christ.

    Through SoulPrint, Batterson encourages his readers to personally evaluate the past, present, and future decisions that have been essential in identity construction.  He discusses the process of sanctification, in which a believer becomes the person who God created them to be.  This exploration is done primarily through a study of the life and decisions of David.  Through the chapters, Batterson makes David come alive to the readers.  Through the life journey of David, readers are taught the importance of having a holy confidence in God, making spiritual markers of God’s faithfulness, reflecting in times of preparation and discouragement, being authentic, and avoiding times of temptation.  Batterson ends the book by painting a picture of God giving believers a completely new identity in heaven.

    This is a very encouraging and challenging read.  Batterson encourages readers to become real about the things that have formed their identity and a passionate call to surrender their identity completely to Christ.  Batterson’s writing style and constant examples make SoulPrint a very compelling read.


  8. Book Review: Throw It Down: Leaving Behind Behaviors and Dependencies that Hold You Back

    April 27, 2011 by admin

    In Throw It Down: Leaving Behind Behaviors and Dependencies that Hold You Back, Jud Wilhite challenges believers to evaluate the struggles in their lives biblically and seek to surrender themselves fully to the work of the God who saves.  This is a very personal book for Wilhite in which he shares his own struggles in this area. 

    Throw It Down is a challenging book, which consists of testimonies of struggle and victory interlaced with a biblical argument for freedom.  Wilhite relies primarily on the people of Israel’s journey out of Egypt in the Exodus as a parallel to a believer’s journey from dependency to freedom.  The New Testament applications of the Exodus narrative, such as Jesus being the Passover Lamb, help to ground this story in the message of the gospel.

    Wilhite continually drives his readers back to an utter dependence on the power of God through the work of the Holy Spirit to lead them to victory from the places of struggle in their lives.  This is an excellent book that effectively leads readers to embrace the power of the Holy Spirit, who sets prisoners free due to the death of Christ on the cross to purchase their freedom.  This is a call to walk in freedom from addiction and struggle that is very practical in nature yet grounded in biblical truth.


  9. Book Review: Max on Life: Answers and Insights to Your Most Important Questions

    April 26, 2011 by admin

     

     

     

    In Max on Life: Answers and Insights to Your Most Important Questions, Max Lucado seeks to do exactly what the title of the book proposes.  From all of his years as a pastor and best-selling author, Lucado has gathered the best 172 questions that he has been asked and seeks to answer them.  These are questions about life, faith, and anything under the sun.

    In his introduction to the book, Lucado, in his typical poetic way, underscores the importance of asking questions and seeking answers by stating:

    “We’ve created the question mark to highlight our questions.  It’s stooped and bent, perhaps because questions can leave us in the same shape, burdened and weary.  We have deep, heavy questions.

    We crave answers.  Straighten this mark, and let it stand.  Replace the cowering curl with a confident exclamation point.”

    This is the point of this book to address readers’ questions with the exclamation point of a biblically grounded answer from Lucado’s years of ministry.

    Max on Life is very different in form than Lucado’s other books, but his answers are still filled with his own brilliance with word pictures and making truth come alive in the minds of his readers.  I like the concept for this book, but I am not sure that all of the questions contained within will be helpful to the readers.  Max on Life is the concept of a “Question and Answer” section, which would be typically found on a website, molded into a book form.  I think that parts of this will be helpful, but I am not sure if Lucado’s typically audience will fully catch on to the concept.


  10. Book Review: Radical Together: Unleashing the People of God for the Purpose of God- David Platt

    March 15, 2011 by admin

     

    In Radical Together: Unleashing the People of God for the Purpose of God, Dr. David Platt challenges the church to seriously examine the mission of God and how effectively each local church is carrying out this mission.  Just like Platt’s first book, Radical: Taking Your Faith Back from the American Dream, Radical Together presents a biblically grounded challenge that the church must address.

    The core question raised by the book is: “How can we in the church best unleash the people of God in the Spirit of God with the Word of God for the glory of God in the world?” (ix).  Platt further expands this question with a very convicting statement: “I am convinced that in the church we can – unknowingly and unintentionally – actually prevent God’s people from accomplishing God’s purpose.  If we are not careful, our activities in the church can hinder the advancement of Christ’s kingdom” (ix).

    In addressing this core question, Platt claims that Radical Together will “build upon biblical foundations in order to consider practical implications for how a right understanding of the church fuels radical obedience among Christians” (x).

    Platt begins with the claim that “the worse enemy of Christians is good things in the church” (1).  Platt warns readers that “As Christians today, you and I can easily deceive ourselves into thinking that dedication to church programs automatically equals devotion to kingdom purposes.  We can fill our lives and our churches with good things requiring our resources, and good activities demanding our attention, that are not ultimately best for the enjoyment of the gospel in our churches and the spread of the gospel in our communities” (3).    The chapter goes on to challenge churches to put everything (staff, programs, procedures, plans, and facilities) on the table to truly see if it is effectively accomplishing the spread of the gospel to the church and the nations.  As Platt warns, we are prone to “exalt our work over God’s will, our dreams over God’s desires, and our plans over God’s priorities” (9).

    Next, Platt addresses the challenge of “the misunderstood gospel,” which is “the gospel that saves us from work saves us to work” (21).  Platt explains this idea by saying, “true faith in Christ inevitably produces great work for Christ – not works fueled by the flesh in an attempt to earn your way to God, but works fueled by faith in a life that is abandoned to God” (27).  This is a picture of the gospel that does not merely save a person from his or her sin, but a gospel that sets them free to live for the fame and glory of the One from whom they have received such great grace!  Platt argues that many Christians today have not heard this gospel clearly presented.  He states that “when the gospel of God is clear in the church, Christians will work hard by the grace of God with great delight in the glory of God” (36).

    “The Word does the work” (39) is Platt’s third challenge.  He says, “We don’t have to work to come up with a word from God; we simply have to trust the Word he has already given to us.  When we do, the Word of God will accomplish the work of God among the people of God” (40).  This chapter focuses on the work of God through the Word of God in the Church at Brook Hills.  Platt approaches this topic with humility pointing all the glory to God who works through him.  Brook Hills is not pictured as a model to be followed in step by step practice but as a picture of allowing the Word of God to lead the people of God.  Platt reminds us that “the Word is sufficient to hold the attention of God’s people and satisfying enough to capture their affection” (57).

    “Building the right church depends on using all the wrong people” (58) is the fourth challenge that Platt seeks to address.  The core of this idea is that “the goal of the church is never for one person to be equipped and empowered to lead as many people as possible to Christ.  The goal is always for all of God’s people to be equipped and empowered to lead as many people as possible to Christ” (60).  The church has lost the biblical idea of making disciples and replaced it with business models and manufactured ways to do church.  This stands as a challenge to the church to focus on people rather than programs.  Platt says, “Who can fathom the potential of the church when we stop just programming ministry for people and we start propelling people into ministry?” (73)  Readers are reminded that “the plan of God is certainly not confined to large churches or gifted leaders.  The plan of God is for every single person counted among the people of God” (83).

    The fifth challenge is “our unmistakable task,” which is “we are living – and longing – for the end of the world” (84).  Platt states that “if we were willing to take some risks, if we were willing to alter our lifestyles, and if we were willing to organize our churches around taking the gospel to people who have never heard the name of Christ, we could see every people group on the planet reached with the gospel.  And in the process, we could be a part of the end of the world” (88).  This challenge focuses on defining the unreached and the biblical call to engage all nations with the gospel.  Platt uses the example of the Brook Hills Baruti to talk about how local and global missions are not in conflict in a local church but serve as two sides of the same coin.  He also addresses the importance of short term mission trips in exciting in Christians a heart for the nations.  Christians have been given the great mercy of God in the gospel and are commanded to share it to people all over the world.  When this mission is accomplished, Jesus will return and the end will come.

    The final challenge is that “we are selfless followers of a self-centered God” (110).  Platt explains this concept by saying, “we are selfless in that we have died to ourselves.  We have lost the right to determine the direction of our lives.  Our God is our Lord, our Master, and our King.  He holds our times in his hands, and he is free to spend our lives however he pleases.  And he is self-centered.  In his Word, God declares his own glory, and in the world, God displays his own glory.  God exalts God…Everything God does, even the salvation of his people, ultimately centers around God, for he is worthy of all praise from all peoples” (114).  Platt argues that the church should be seeker sensitive with God as the divine seeker.  Our lives and churches should exist to exalt God through spreading His gospel and engaging in His mission no matter what comforts we may have to forfeit in the process.  The mission of God can only be accomplished through a radical dependence on God through prayer as He works in and through His church to bring the nations to a saving knowledge of Himself.

    Radical Together is another pointed challenge from scripture to the American church.  Platt once again presents biblical truths in a clear and challenging way to awaken hearts of Christians to the mission and purpose of God.  Platt reminds us that “God does not involve us in his grand, global purpose because he needs us.  He involves us in his grand, global purpose because he loves us” (135).  It is from a heart of humility, a love for God’s glory in the nations, and a passion for the gospel that David Platt presents another book that should be read by every church leader and believer.  God’s fame in the nations through the spread of the gospel is worth living radically!