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  1. Book Review: Max on Life: Answers and Insights to Your Most Important Questions

    April 26, 2011 by admin

     

     

     

    In Max on Life: Answers and Insights to Your Most Important Questions, Max Lucado seeks to do exactly what the title of the book proposes.  From all of his years as a pastor and best-selling author, Lucado has gathered the best 172 questions that he has been asked and seeks to answer them.  These are questions about life, faith, and anything under the sun.

    In his introduction to the book, Lucado, in his typical poetic way, underscores the importance of asking questions and seeking answers by stating:

    “We’ve created the question mark to highlight our questions.  It’s stooped and bent, perhaps because questions can leave us in the same shape, burdened and weary.  We have deep, heavy questions.

    We crave answers.  Straighten this mark, and let it stand.  Replace the cowering curl with a confident exclamation point.”

    This is the point of this book to address readers’ questions with the exclamation point of a biblically grounded answer from Lucado’s years of ministry.

    Max on Life is very different in form than Lucado’s other books, but his answers are still filled with his own brilliance with word pictures and making truth come alive in the minds of his readers.  I like the concept for this book, but I am not sure that all of the questions contained within will be helpful to the readers.  Max on Life is the concept of a “Question and Answer” section, which would be typically found on a website, molded into a book form.  I think that parts of this will be helpful, but I am not sure if Lucado’s typically audience will fully catch on to the concept.


  2. Book Review: Out Live Your Life: You Were Made to Make a Difference

    September 10, 2010 by admin

    In Out Live Your Life: You Were Made to Make a Difference, Max Lucado presents a book to challenge the church to minister to the least of these.  This book is a narrative-driven commentary on the ministry of the early church to hurting people throughout the book of Acts.  Lucado does an excellent job of making the passages come alive and presenting them in an American context.  The book also tells the stories of many people outside of the New Testament that God has used to make an impact that stretches beyond the reach of their life.  This book is more personally challenging than many of Lucado’s previous works.  Today’s church has become too comfortable in our American religion that centers more around us than the gospel or the mission of God to love and reach out to the hurting.  Lucado stands in line with other church leaders, who are sounding a wake up call to Christians to get involved in becoming the hands and feet of Jesus in the world.  The discussion/application guide serves as a tool for small group discussion on this important topic, which stood at the center of Christ’s life and ministry.   Out Live Your Life serves as an inspiring and engaging yet challenging book, which will leave readers asking themselves how they can better love and live like Jesus in a broken and hurting world.


  3. Book Review: The Butterfly Effect: How Your Life Matters

    September 7, 2010 by admin

    In The Butterfly Effect: How Your Life Matters, Andy Andrews presents inspiring stories of influence.  The book presents two extended stories of how one person through the midst of ordinary life can influence another.  The first chain of influence was Joshua Lawrence Chamberlin, who stood with his union army in the battle of Gettysburg despite the odds.  His decision to stand ground and fight led to a victory for the Union in a battle that helped to end the Civil War and save America from being divided in two.  The second story shows how the chain of influence lead Norman Borlaug to create a form of disease resistant corn, which saved the lives of many people.  Norman was influenced by many others through the midst of ordinary life who helped to mold him into the person he became.  Andrews employs these stories to pose the question that stands at the heart of the book: “And how far forward would we need to go in your life to show the difference you make?”  He continues with his challenge to his readers to step up and make a difference in the lives of others by stating: “There are generations yet unborn whose very lives will be shifted and shaped by the moves you make and the actions you take today. And tomorrow. And the next day. And the next.” The Butterfly Effect is a challenge to remember that “every single thing that you do matters.”  Andy Andrews presents a very inspiring book to encourage readers to live to make an impact on others.  My only hesitation is that I read this entire book in about 15 minutes and with a $15 price tag this might be worth taking a few minutes to read in your local bookstore rather than purchasing it.


  4. Late August Life Update

    August 25, 2009 by admin

    So, I have not blogged in ages because life has been insane between working with the middle school at FBC Pelham and working at Student Life.  I started Beeson Divinity School this week so I think that my life and schedule is going to reach some form of stability and rhythm soon.

    God has been doing amazing things over the last few months.  He has really been working through the middle school ministry at church.  We are seeing more students getting involved in coming to church than the middle school ministry has seen in a long time.  God led me to do a series this semester on Wednesday nights called Rebel: Following a Jesus Who Did Not Conform.  We have been studying the counter cultural nature of the Christian lives through Jesus’ dialogues with individuals throughout the book of John.  It has been an amazing journey so far, and the students seem to be really impacted by the truth.

    Beeson could not have been a more perfect fit for me.  I am loving the classes and people and feel like I am in a place where I can grow and be challenged.  It is going to be neat to see how readings from the early church and the theological debates from church history so easily apply to my ministry at Pelham.  I am growing and learning so much even in the first few days, and I cannot wait to see what God is going to do in the days and weeks to come.  Thanks again for all your prayers and support as I continue along my journey.


  5. Beeson Divinity School

    March 30, 2009 by admin

    Beeson Divinity School, Samford University

    After many months and years of prayer and preparing for ministry, God has opened the door for me to study under the professors at Samford University’s Beeson Divinity School.  I wanted to go to Beeson because it is a multi-denominational school with a heart for preparing pastors for the work of the ministry.  Beeson teaches theology from a historical perspective bringing the issues of scriptural interpretation and the theological issues and debates in church history to life.  This approach to study does not rush out to see what the latest church guru has to say about a particular issue but studies issues surrounding the church in light of the past history of the Christian church.  I am blessed to have the opportunity to study in the community of Beeson Divinity School.  Thanks to everyone for their prayers for me in this process!  To God be the glory!


  6. Exciting Changes and Adventures in 2009

    January 2, 2009 by admin

    Here are some exciting changes and adventures coming to my life and ministry this year that I wanted to share:

    • Partnership with Relevant Artist- God has opened the door for a ministry partnership between my speaking ministry and Relevant Artist.  Relevant Artist is a booking agency out of Nashville, Tennessee that is going to be helping get the word out on my speaking ministry in addition to helping with some logistics.  I will be attending the Southeast Conclave youth pastor’s conference with Relevant Artist the end of January.
    • East Asia Mission Trip- In May, I will be headed to East Asia for two weeks with my small group from church.  We will be ministering to people in the heart of the 10/40 window, which is the least reached part of the world.  It is going to be an amazing opportunity to share the gospel with people who have never heard the name of Jesus!
    • Small Group Bible Study Resources- There will be a new addition and section coming to this website in early 2009 which will be designed for small group Bible study leaders and will provide free curriculum for groups.  I have had the privilege of serving as a small group leader for many years and continue to lead student small groups.  These will be some resources that I have comprised and compiled over these years as a small group leader that may be helpful to you in your ministry.

    I hope that this blog and website continues to be an encouragement to you in 2009.  I pray that 2009 is an exciting year in your life and ministry also!


  7. Jonathan Edward’s Resolutions

    January 1, 2009 by admin

    On the first day of 2009, I think it would be helpful to look at Jonathan Edward’s resolutions for life.  This is an overwhelming list that should encourage us to continue to chase after Jesus Christ in this New Year.

    1. Resolved, that I will do whatsoever I think to be most to God’ s glory, and my own good, profit and pleasure, in the whole of my duration, without any consideration of the time, whether now, or never so many myriads of ages hence. Resolved to do whatever I think to be my duty and most for the good and advantage of mankind in general. Resolved to do this, whatever difficulties I meet with, how many soever, and how great soever.

    2. Resolved, to be continually endeavoring to find out some new contrivance and invention to promote the aforementioned things.

    3. Resolved, if ever I shall fall and grow dull, so as to neglect to keep any part of these Resolutions, to repent of all I can remember, when I come to myself again.

    4. Resolved, never to do any manner of thing, whether in soul or body, less or more, but what tends to the glory of God; nor be, nor suffer it, if I can avoid it.

    5. Resolved, never to lose one moment of time; but improve it the most profitable way I possibly can.

    6. Resolved, to live with all my might, while I do live.

    7. Resolved, never to do anything, which I should be afraid to do, if it were the last hour of my life.

    8. Resolved, to act, in all respects, both speaking and doing, as if nobody had been so vile as I, and as if I had committed the same sins, or had the same infirmities or failings as others; and that I will let the knowledge of their failings promote nothing but shame in myself, and prove only an occasion of my confessing my own sins and misery to God. July 30.

    9. Resolved, to think much on all occasions of my own dying, and of the common circumstances which attend death.

    10. Resolved, when I feel pain, to think of the pains of martyrdom, and of hell.

    11. Resolved, when I think of any theorem in divinity to be solved, immediately to do what I can towards solving it, if circumstances do not hinder.

    12. Resolved, if I take delight in it as a gratification of pride, or vanity, or on any such account, immediately to throw it by.

    13. Resolved, to be endeavoring to find out fit objects of charity and liberality.

    14. Resolved, never to do any thing out of revenge.

    15. Resolved, never to suffer the least motions of anger towards irrational beings.

    16. Resolved, never to speak evil of anyone, so that it shall tend to his dishonor, more or less, upon no account except for some real good.

    17. Resolved, that I will live so, as I shall wish I had done when I come to die.

    18. Resolved, to live so, at all times, as I think is best in my devout frames, and when I have clearest notions of things of the gospel, and another world.

    19. Resolved, never to do any thing, which I should be afraid to do, if I expected it would not be above an hour, before I should hear the last trump.

    20. Resolved, to maintain the strictest temperance, in eating and drinking.

    21. Resolved, never to do any thing, which if I should see in another, I should count a just occasion to despise him for, or to think any way the more meanly of him. (Resolutions 1 through 21 written in one setting in New Haven in 1722)

    22. Resolved, to endeavor to obtain for myself as much happiness, in the other world, as I possibly can, with all the power, might, vigor, and vehemence, yea violence, I am capable of, or can bring myself to exert, in any way that can be thought of.

    23. Resolved, frequently to take some deliberate action, which seems most unlikely to be done, for the glory of God, and trace it back to the original intention, designs and ends of it; and if I find it not to be for God’ s glory, to repute it as a breach of the 4th Resolution.

    24. Resolved, whenever I do any conspicuously evil action, to trace it back, till I come to the original cause; and then, both carefully endeavor to do so no more, and to fight and pray with all my might against the original of it.

    25. Resolved, to examine carefully, and constantly, what that one thing in me is, which causes me in the least to doubt of the love of God; and to direct all my forces against it.

    26. Resolved, to cast away such things, as I find do abate my assurance.

    27. Resolved, never willfully to omit any thing, except the omission be for the glory of God; and frequently to examine my omissions.

    28. Resolved, to study the Scriptures so steadily, constantly and frequently, as that I may find, and plainly perceive myself to grow in the knowledge of the same.

    29. Resolved, never to count that a prayer, nor to let that pass as a prayer, nor that as a petition of a prayer, which is so made, that I cannot hope that God will answer it; nor that as a confession, which I cannot hope God will accept.

    30. Resolved, to strive to my utmost every week to be brought higher in religion, and to a higher exercise of grace, than I was the week before.

    31. Resolved, never to say any thing at all against any body, but when it is perfectly agreeable to the highest degree of Christian honor, and of love to mankind, agreeable to the lowest humility, and sense of my own faults and failings, and agreeable to the golden rule; often, when I have said anything against anyone, to bring it to, and try it strictly by the test of this Resolution.

    32. Resolved, to be strictly and firmly faithful to my trust, that that, in Proverbs 20:6Open Link in New Window,‹A faithful man who can find?Š may not be partly fulfilled in me.

    33. Resolved, to do always, what I can towards making, maintaining, and preserving peace, when it can be done without overbalancing detriment in other respects. Dec. 26, 1722.

    34. Resolved, in narrations never to speak any thing but the pure and simple verity.

    35. Resolved, whenever I so much question whether I have done my duty, as that my quiet and calm is thereby disturbed, to set it down, and also how the question was resolved. Dec. 18, 1722.

    36. Resolved, never to speak evil of any, except I have some particular good call for it. Dec. 19, 1722.

    37. Resolved, to inquire every night, as I am going to bed, wherein I have been negligent,- what sin I have committed,-and wherein I have denied myself;-also at the end of every week, month and year. Dec. 22 and 26, 1722.

    38. Resolved, never to speak anything that is ridiculous, sportive, or matter of laughter on the Lord’ s day. Sabbath evening, Dec. 23, 1722.

    39. Resolved, never to do any thing of which I so much question the lawfulness of, as that I intend, at the same time, to consider and examine afterwards, whether it be lawful or not; unless I as much question the lawfulness of the omission.

    40. Resolved, to inquire every night, before I go to bed, whether I have acted in the best way I possibly could, with respect to eating and drinking. Jan. 7, 1723.

    41. Resolved, to ask myself, at the end of every day, week, month and year, wherein I could possibly, in any respect, have done better. Jan. 11, 1723.

    42. Resolved, frequently to renew the dedication of myself to God, which was made at my baptism; which I solemnly renewed, when I was received into the communion of the church; and which I have solemnly re-made this twelfth day of January, 1722-23.

    43. Resolved, never, henceforward, till I die, to act as if I were any way my own, but entirely and altogether God’ s; agreeable to what is to be found in Saturday, January 12, 1723.

    44. Resolved, that no other end but religion, shall have any influence at all on any of my actions; and that no action shall be, in the least circumstance, any otherwise than the religious end will carry it. January 12, 1723.

    45. Resolved, never to allow any pleasure or grief, joy or sorrow, nor any affection at all, nor any degree of affection, nor any circumstance relating to it, but what helps religion. Jan. 12 and 13, 1723.

    46. Resolved, never to allow the least measure of any fretting uneasiness at my father or mother. Resolved to suffer no effects of it, so much as in the least alteration of speech, or motion of my eye: and to be especially careful of it with respect to any of our family.

    47. Resolved, to endeavor, to my utmost, to deny whatever is not most agreeable to a good, and universally sweet and benevolent, quiet, peaceable, contented and easy, compassionate and generous, humble and meek, submissive and obliging, diligent and industrious, charitable and even, patient, moderate, forgiving and sincere temper; and to do at all times, what such a temper would lead me to; and to examine strictly, at the end of every week, whether I have done so. Sabbath morning. May 5, 1723.

    48. Resolved, constantly, with the utmost niceness and diligence, and the strictest scrutiny, to be looking into the state of my soul, that I may know whether I have truly an interest in Christ or not; that when I come to die, I may not have any negligence respecting this to repent of. May 26, 1723.

    49. Resolved, that this never shall be, if I can help it.

    50. Resolved, I will act so as I think I shall judge would have been best, and most prudent, when I come into the future world. July 5, 1723.

    51. Resolved, that I will act so, in every respect, as I think I shall wish I had done, if I should at last be damned. July 8, 1723.

    52. I frequently hear persons in old age, say how they would live, if they were to live their lives over again: Resolved, that I will live just so as I can think I shall wish I had done, supposing I live to old age. July 8, 1723.

    53. Resolved, to improve every opportunity, when I am in the best and happiest frame of mind, to cast and venture my soul on the Lord Jesus Christ, to trust and confide in him, and consecrate myself wholly to him; that from this I may have assurance of my safety, knowing that I confide in my Redeemer. July 8, 1723.

    54. Whenever I hear anything spoken in conversation of any person, if I think it would be praiseworthy in me, Resolved to endeavor to imitate it. July 8, 1723.

    55. Resolved, to endeavor to my utmost to act as I can think I should do, if, I had already seen the happiness of heaven, and hell torments. July 8, 1723.

    56. Resolved, never to give over, nor in the least to slacken, my fight with my corruptions, however unsuccessful I may be.

    57. Resolved, when I fear misfortunes and adversities, to examine whether I have done my duty, and resolve to do it, and let the event be just as providence orders it. I will as far as I can, be concerned about nothing but my duty, and my sin. June 9, and July 13 1723.

    58. Resolved, not only to refrain from an air of dislike, fretfulness, and anger in conversation, but to exhibit an air of love, cheerfulness and benignity. May 27, and July 13, 1723.

    59. Resolved, when I am most conscious of provocations to ill nature and anger, that I will strive most to feel and act good-naturedly; yea, at such times, to manifest good nature, though I think that in other respects it would be disadvantageous, and so as would be imprudent at other times. May 12, July 11, and July 13.

    60. Resolved, whenever my feelings begin to appear in the least out of order, when I am conscious of the least uneasiness within, or the least irregularity without, I will then subject myself to the strictest examination. July 4, and 13, 1723.

    61. Resolved, that I will not give way to that listlessness which I find unbends and relaxes my mind from being fully and fixedly set on religion, whatever excuse I may have for it-that what my listlessness inclines me to do, is best to be done, etc. May 21, and July 13, 1723.

    62. Resolved, never to do anything but duty, and then according to Ephesians 6:6-8Open Link in New Window, to do it willingly and cheerfully as unto the Lord, and not to man:‹knowing that whatever good thing any man doth, the same shall he receive of the Lord.Š June 25 and July 13, 1723.

    63. On the supposition, that there never was to be but one individual in the world, at any one time, who was properly a complete Christian, in all respects of a right stamp, having Christianity always shining in its true luster, and appearing excellent and lovely, from whatever part and under whatever character viewed: Resolved, to act just as I would do, if I strove with all my might to be that one, who should live in my time. January 14 and July 13, 1723.

    64. Resolved, when I find those ‹groanings which cannot be utteredŠ (Romans 8:26Open Link in New Window), of which the Apostle speaks, and those‹breakings of soul for the longing it hath,Š of which the Psalmist speaks, Psalm 119:20Open Link in New Window, that I will promote them to the utmost of my power, and that I will not be weary of earnestly endeavoring to vent my desires, nor of the repetitions of such earnestness. July 23, and August 10, 1723.

    65. Resolved, very much to exercise myself in this, all my life long, viz. with the greatest openness, of which I am capable of, to declare my ways to God, and lay open my soul to him: all my sins, temptations, difficulties, sorrows, fears, hopes, desires, and every thing, and every circumstance; according to Dr. Manton’ s 27th Sermon on Psalm 119Open Link in New Window. July 26, and Aug.10 1723.

    66. Resolved, that I will endeavor always to keep a benign aspect, and air of acting and speaking in all places, and in all companies, except it should so happen that duty requires otherwise.

    67. Resolved, after afflictions, to inquire, what I am the better for them, what am I the better for them, and what I might have got by them.

    68. Resolved, to confess frankly to myself all that which I find in myself, either infirmity or sin; and, if it be what concerns religion, also to confess the whole case to God, and implore needed help. July 23, and August 10, 1723.

    69. Resolved, always to do that, which I shall wish I had done when I see others do it. August 11, 1723.

    70. Let there be something of benevolence, in all that I speak. August 17, 1723.


  8. Merry Christmas from Awestruck Ministries

    December 25, 2008 by admin

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    Wishing you and your family a wonderful Christmas and a Happy New Year!

    God Bless,

    Awestruck Ministries Team

    Ben, Daniel, Jeremy, Joe, and Josh


  9. Merry Christmas

    December 23, 2008 by admin

    I hope that you all have a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year! This blog is going to go without new content until 2009. Stay tuned for some exciting new content, resources, and announcements regarding this website and the development of my speaking ministry coming early 2009. God bless you and your family this season!

    In Christ,
    Ben


  10. Week of Interesting Blog Posts: The Cool Side of the Pillow

    December 11, 2008 by admin

    The following is an interesting article from Greg Atkinson posted at Monday Morning Insight:

    Okay, I’m going to be very transparent and honest about three of my favorite things to do. Besides using a Q-tip deeper than any Q-tip should ever go (which is probably my favorite silly thing to do), I also love getting my hair cut. I don’t know why, but it’s a very relaxing and fun part of my life that I look forward to. My third favorite thing to do happens at night when I’m lying in bed and just looking up at the ceiling and thinking. After a little amount of time, the pillow will become warm, uncomfortable and a little distracting. All I have to do to remedy the situation is flip my pillow over to the “cool side” and I experience terrific refreshment, a true AHHHHH moment. It’s crazy, really. All I do is turn the pillow over, but it brings me such joy and allows me to lie there a little longer: comfortable, happy and undistracted, to just think and pray. 

    Why do I bring this up? Because in our daily lives, I think we need to “flip the pillow” from time to time to shake things up, experience a new joy and see things in a different way. Here are a few thoughts on how to change things up in our everyday routines. Now, forgive me, these are random and I’m just going to spout them out…

    Before you go to bed, put a bottle of water next to your bed. When you wake up, sit up on the side of your bed and take a big drink of your bottled water. I read an article on the many benefits of water a couple of years ago. One thing the article mentioned was the advantages (which I can’t remember all) of drinking water first thing in the morning. It refreshes, flushes, and replenishes your system and gets your body going bright and early. Another morning change would be to take a quick walk around your neighborhood before getting in the shower. So to rewind: sit up, drink water, put on your shoes and go out for an early morning walk (or jog, if you’re up for it). Then come back and shower before leaving for school or work.

    Now, on the way to school or work, try taking an alternate or different route from time to time. If you drive the same way and see the same things each morning, your mind will resort back to a kind of blah mode and you can easily miss the beauty of God’s creation. Each day is a gift from God and an opportunity to pray, give thanks and talk with your Creator throughout your morning drive. Taking the back or side roads once in a while may just spur on a new appreciation of your surroundings and allow you to arrive at school or work in an unusually positive and peaceful mood. I’d also propose turning off the radio or i-Pod occasionally and just riding in silence – that’s when I find God speaks to me. It’s hard for me to hear Him when I’m listening to music or sports talk radio.

    My next suggestion has to do with spending time with God. This includes private worship, prayer and time in God’s Word. I have a few thoughts on this. One is to try a different time of the day to do this daily discipline. If you always do this in the morning, try it one night before bed (or vice versa). Another suggestion is to connect with God during your lunch break, maybe even once in a while forego eating and spend that whole time in prayer and the Word.

    Another thought on spending time with God is on the location. As often as you can, I’d encourage you to do this outside. There is something very special about connecting with the Creator while admiring His creation. Some of the best devotional times I’ve had were in scenic locations (like beaches, mountains and parks).

    One final thought on this subject is a “praise break” sometime throughout your day. One thing that employees in other countries do well is take full advantage of breaks and times of rest and refreshment. If you stare at a screen from 9am to 5pm your life pretty much sucks. Did I say that out loud? I meant to say that though your day may be predominately sitting at a desk and typing on a computer, you can be intentional to stand up, stretch, take a walk down the hall or outside, take a break to pray, sing or just do nothing and listen. This will save your eyes, lessen headaches and allow you to “practice the presence of God” throughout the day as Brother Lawrence described in his book.

    If you have the option, try going mobile for a day or an afternoon. I do this often. I will leave my office, tell my team I’m “going mobile” and go to a cool location with my laptop. Sometimes I find a local Wi-Fi hotspot so I can be online. Sometimes I just go “unplugged” and write or read for a while. Bring a journal with you. You never know when or where God may speak to you.

    Besides when and where you have your quiet time with God, there are ways to change up how you spend that time. Here are a few thoughts on that. First, when reading Scripture, try a different translation. I highly recommend reading something from The Message at least once a week. God uses The Message to open my heart and eyes, so I can see His Word in a whole new way. Changing translations from time to time allows the Holy Spirit to breathe new life into passages that you may have read several times and tend to just glance over.

    Here are a couple of thoughts on reading your Bible. First, read slowly. We’re all guilty of reading through Scripture too quickly. We let our eyes scan the pages and don’t give the Word time to soak and digest. For a change of pace, try reading one sentence at a time and reflect on that sentence before moving on. Secondly, read aloud. The Bible exhorts us to “shout unto God”. There is something powerful and supernatural that happens when you read Scripture aloud. I will sometimes hold the Bible in my hand, walk around my bedroom and read the Scripture out loud with boldness. I can’t quite describe how it resonates with my spirit, but I know it’s powerful and the atmosphere in my room changes.

    Third, I’d very humbly suggest that you read Scripture simply to know God more intimately. This might appear obvious, but believe me it takes a lot of intentionality to do this. Most pastors admit that they wrestle with reading the Bible purely to know God more and not in preparation for a sermon. Youth pastors struggle with reading Scripture purely and not just to find a new illustration to use in teaching. Worship leaders and songwriters often find themselves reading the Bible looking for inspiration for new songs. None of these things are bad. Pastors need to prepare their messages from Scripture. Youth pastors should look for Biblical illustrations and musicians should be writing theologically correct songs. I just bring this up as something to keep present in your mind when you’re reading Scripture as part of your daily quiet time or devotional. Try as best you can to read simply for the joy of knowing Christ more.

    In addition to private worship, prayer and reading the Bible, I’d encourage you to check your church’s library or a Christian book store for devotional material or Bible studies that you can use to supplement your time in Scripture. God uses the writings and devotional thoughts of others to speak to our hearts in new ways and give you a fresh perspective on various topics and Scripture passages.

    When you come home, you can change up how you have dinner. My family and I like to do picnics from time to time. Eating on our patio, walking to our neighborhood park or driving to a remote place are all things that we’ve tried to “flip the pillow” as a family. Sometimes you can cut off the TV for the night and play cards, board games or just talk. Again, these aren’t routines I’m suggesting; these are occasional breaks from the norm that just might be a catalyst for an unexpected moment of joy.

    Friends, life is tough. Pain is real. We all have areas of our life, family or finances that we worry or stress over. The truth is: life is short and life is precious. One of the saddest things we can do is to lose our focus and live frustrated. God’s Word says that His joy will be our strength. Christ has not promised an easy or pain-free life, but He has promised to be our peace, our Comforter, our strength, our hope and to never forsake us. God’s not abandoning us in our time of need. He’s not distant. His ear can hear our cry and His hand is quick to catch us, brush us off and pick us up when we stumble and/or fall (and we will).

    I think turning the pillow over from time to time; or as some used to say, “Stopping and smelling the roses” may be a refreshing change of pace. I think things like I’ve suggested and other ideas that God may prompt and put on your heart are ways to snap out of the norm, break free from the ruts and routines that we all find ourselves in, and wake up to the wonderful life that God has given us and called us to walk in Him.

    ©2007 – Greg Atkinson (http://www.GregAtkinson.com
    Used by permission from author. All rights reserved by author. This article first appeared in LifeWay’s “Let’s Worship” magazine.

    Greg Atkinson lives in Dallas with his wife and their three small children. Greg served previously as the Director of WorshipHouse Media, after having served as a worship pastor for 11 years. Greg is now the Director of Technical Arts at Bent Tree Church and continues to consult, teach and write about innovation, technology, leadership and social justice. You can connect with him through his daily blog at GregAtkinson.com.